October went on a fast-pace as it was a month of festivals and long-weekends. It all started with the excitement of Diwali and added onto that was the excitement of my brother's visit from Malawi after 2 years. It was a family get-together with great fun.
Professional front was fairly normal and continued with the same pace and some amount of sloppiness due to the long weekends. However this didn't leave much impact on the work. So nothing more on this to comment on.
My Flat
After the finalization of the flat and the booking, I started making arrangements for closing off on the down payment. In the midst, I have started with the wood-work at the apartment as everybody advises that "Do it or you would find it difficult to do later". I had to resort to my friends for arranging the fund for this work and luckily +Bharath Balasubramanian and +Vijayalakshmi T helped me out in this and made this happen. Special thanks to them for their support at the right time.
Diwali & Holidays
Diwali was a bit tragic this year as I had missed the eve due to the awkward placement of holidays. However the holidays gave me some rest. The holiday was made even more exciting by mom as she wanted me to visit (along with them of course) to see 2 prominent matches they have figured out. I was clueless and with half-mind and couldn't really enjoy the experience to be honest. Also I was not prepared as to what to expect out of this and how to accept/reject anybody who is gonna travel with me for the rest of my life.
The first match was good and I liked her. This is just by look and with certain assumptions that I made by visiting their family. However my family members had a difference of opinion for whatsoever reasons and hence they decided to lookout for few more matches.
The second match was appealing to all others except me and I kinda felt that it will not work out and hence stuck to my own norms.There was a bit of hungama as everybody tried to convince me but I was not at all satisfied. There was no problem with the girl on any sort but the very thought that she wouldn't fit me made me to find reasons. I am not sure if i had made a wrong choice or not, but was very clear that I stuck to my own norms.
After these 2 matches, I had a thought on what has just happened and what could have been done to make it even more better so that I would not suffer mentally for deciding my life partner and this gave me a realization that I made a mistake of not having discussion with the girl for understanding them before getting onto a conclusion. The further matches would only be decided based on the discussion and understanding them so that the common ground could help me make better decisions that deciding with certain assumptions in mind.
The very advice of making decisions by talking with the girl seems to be the great advice that everybody offers and I resort on this and move on..
The first match was good and I liked her. This is just by look and with certain assumptions that I made by visiting their family. However my family members had a difference of opinion for whatsoever reasons and hence they decided to lookout for few more matches.
The second match was appealing to all others except me and I kinda felt that it will not work out and hence stuck to my own norms.There was a bit of hungama as everybody tried to convince me but I was not at all satisfied. There was no problem with the girl on any sort but the very thought that she wouldn't fit me made me to find reasons. I am not sure if i had made a wrong choice or not, but was very clear that I stuck to my own norms.
After these 2 matches, I had a thought on what has just happened and what could have been done to make it even more better so that I would not suffer mentally for deciding my life partner and this gave me a realization that I made a mistake of not having discussion with the girl for understanding them before getting onto a conclusion. The further matches would only be decided based on the discussion and understanding them so that the common ground could help me make better decisions that deciding with certain assumptions in mind.
The very advice of making decisions by talking with the girl seems to be the great advice that everybody offers and I resort on this and move on..
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